May and June are months of celebrations:  First Communions, Wedding and Wedding Anniversaries, Mothers Day and Fathers Day – all at a time when the days are warmer and the trees and flowers are beginning to bloom again.  Let’s not let our pressing tasks and concerns about our own and our family’s well-being rob us of taking time, first, to think about what these celebrations commemorate and then, to reach out to others in whatever celebratory ways are available to us.  Taking time to think about these first should make our subsequent communications richer.  This nurturing of our own and each other’s emotional, spiritual and relational needs is just as important as taking care of whatever it is that we are tempted to think are what what needs our full attention right now.

THE PAUSES THAT REFRESH US

So let’s consider these May and June events and the relationships they seek to strengthen, relationships that provide insights to the unseen realities that permeate and bring meaning and joy into our lives:   Holy Communion, Marriage, Mothers Day and Fathers Day, all of which are  (or at least could be, were we to take time to pause and reflect on them) demonstrations of love and the giving and receiving of gifts that express love and commitment.

•  WEDDINGS. In marriage a man and a woman exchange wedding rings. Each receives a wedding ring from the other. The ring is  a sign of the spouse’s love and commitment. It is a gift given from one who loves.  It is given with love and received with love.  For all the days ahead this ring will be a sign of the giver’s love and commitment.  Of course, as just about any married couple will tell you, they had no idea what that would entail nor that their understanding of the love they shared would grow over the years as their love would grow into such a deeper, richer love – far beyond anything they had imagined.
•  MOTHERS AND FATHERS DAY. In the weeks or days before Mothers Day and Fathers Day, the media remind us to celebrate the two people on which our lives and our well-being depend. It is a time to ponder and express to them, living and deceased, the deep appreciation, gratitude and love we bear for them.  Often our words are accompanied by cards and gifts.
•  HOLY COMMUNION. As our children and those of our friends, family and parishioners receive their First Holy Communion, they and we are called to center our attention on the greatest love of all, Jesus’ gift of Himself to us in the Eucharist. As with the spouses in marriage, over the years our understanding of this gift and appreciation of the gift that the gift-giver gives grow.

In these four celebrations love is expressed by the giving of a gift.  In them each gift-giver, the spouse, the son or daughter and Jesus is attempting in giving the gift to let the gift be a gifting of oneself to the other.  In the Eucharist, the Gift-giver being God, the Gift and the Gift-Giver are one.  This is the most perfect gift of all!

Let us be mindful of the gifts and gift-givers in our lives.

Sister Loretta